Posts tagged coparenting
10 Tips for Coparents from a Coparenting Counselor

Coparenting Counseling will not heal the pain and hurt YOU FEEL from your divorce. You will need to do your own recovery and therapy for that to happen (and I hope that you do!), but Coparenting Counseling can be helpful in building a new relationship with your coparent. For kids of divorce, they have enough pain to deal with just getting over their family ending. Adding constant fighting to that pain is just not fair. For their sake, I urge you to get help if you need it, so your kids learn that divorce is NOT the final word to their family, as they knew it.  There is hope for a new future and while their parents are no longer married they can get along, so everyone can move forward and have a better future.

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Co-parenting & Technology: Tips and pitfalls

Currently, technology plays a pivotal role in how one's co-parenting relationship is played out.  Unfortunately, some couples have used it as a means of destruction to destroy each other and publicly display "their dirty laundry".  This does not encourage a co-parenting relationship.  Using technology to hurt your former spouse only ends up hurting your children...and yourself.

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What is coparenting? What isn't coparenting? Help!

Coparenting could be a new word for you, especially if you just entered the divorce world.  It is a critical word if you have children of divorce.  Divorced parents that have a successful coparenting relationship often find that their divorce has a smaller impact on their children than those divorces with high conflict.  But if you are getting a divorce you will want to know what coparenting is and what it is not.

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4 tips on how to survive and coparent during the holidays

Coparenting through the holidays can be difficult.  Emotions are high as well as expectations. We all have the picture in our head of the perfect family holiday and usually our family is just not measuring up to our picture.  High expectations often lead to resentment. Many children of divorce have come to hate the holidays or their birthday, because it is just a day their parents use to fight over them.

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